I did a cord cutting ceremony with my client and dear friend the other night.
She wanted to get rid of toxic cords from someone she used to care for but that person was treating her badly.
It was the perfect time to do this ritual to sever ties after performing her Reiki session.
When someone makes you feel poorly, you are addicted or obsessed with this person, you can't figure out why you keep going back to them, you most likely have unhealthy attachments. These are called cords.
Cords energetically bond you to a person via the soul or entity attachments.
She asked if the ritual worked after we performed it. My response was, "I know it worked. Trust your intuition and intention. If he isn't feeling it now, he will later!"
How I explained my reasoning to her was in these two ways:
I felt my energy tightening up, a lot. Everything in my center constricted during the ritual, and took a while to open back up afterwards. This was his energy being depleted of her life force energy while she took her power back.
When our cells are healthy and energy is flowing, they wave and flow freely. When we get angry, our cells constrict. They tighten up and DON'T move freely.
There were other significant factors as well that happened during the cutting of cords, such as:
Her candle stayed bright and stood tall. It burned nicely.
His candle started to disappear, and became ugly and withered. It split in half upon first burning, and melted all the way down while catching on immense fire. The way these two candles reacted to the cord cutting was immensely different, and representative of these two being's energies.
I reminded my client before I left that the most important part after this ritual was to stay strong in her intention. She needed to not invite his energies back, stay in her own lane, and move on. These rituals only work when you can stay strong with your boundaries. Any intention to get back with this person and invite them into your life again (connect with them) depletes the power of the cord cutting ritual and literally connects old cords back again.
Although cord cutting ceremonies are very powerful and effective, it is ultimately up to the client to keep that intention strong for it to work.
In order to gain new thriving and healthy connections, we must sever old, toxic bonds that no longer serve us.
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